((Editor's comments in double parenthesis - Homer))

EXM 65
Marriage and Divorce

8 August 1992

Copyright (C) 1992 A Voice of the Free Zone (Electra)
Redistribution rights granted for non commercial purposes.

'Are you denying the rightness of a marriage?'

'Are you denying the wrongness of a marriage?'

'Are you denying the rightness of a divorce?'

'Are you denying the wrongness of a divorce?'

You can't audit one side of a dichotomy with out auditing the other. If some guy is raving mad on the subject of marriage, either his own or his parents or his children's, then audit him on the subject of divorce.

If he is mad on the subject of divorce, audit him on marriage. Marriage is a contract to produce children, a contract to create and raise beings who can create and raise beings.

Divorce is a cessation of that contract.

Unfortunately, when you have a child, you have THEIR children too!

You are not just creating one child. because your child can create too. When you create something that can create something, you are responsible all the way up the line for the rest of time!

Parents who wish to create just one child, usually make sure that their children have no desire to marry or have children themselves.

It can be done.

Parents who take no joy in their children, bring up children that soon learn that children are not a joy. Thus they chose not to have them.

A child who could bring no joy to his parents, a child who had parents that wanted to kill themselves even though he was there to make them happy, soon learns that he is not a joy to have around.

Thus all the emotions, all the goals and games that go with 'bringing joy to your parents' go by the wayside, and the child begins to live in a gloom of grey and unfeeling sadness.

If this happened to you as a child, did you do such a thing to YOUR child many lives back? Did something catch up with you?

'Are you denying a wrongness?'

'Are you denying a rightness?'

'Are you charging people with crimes they did not commit?'

'Are you refusing to charge people with crimes they did commit?'

'Do you have a withhold on .......conception, birth, death, sex, marriage, divorce, having children, being a fetus, being a baby, being a child, being a son, being a daughter, being a mother, being a father, being a wife, being a husband, being a girl, being a boy?'

((I would stick sister and brother in here along with grandstuff. It's apparent to me that Electra never had brothers or sisters as she almost never mentions them in her writings, yet many people have TONS of charge on their siblings, especially the opposite sex siblings.))

'Do you believe that you have never been a mother, a father, a wife, a husband, a son, a daughter, a man, a woman, a boy or a girl?'

'Have you ever married the wrong woman?'

'Have you ever not married the right woman?'

'Have you ever divorced a woman when you shouldn't have?'

'Have you ever not divorced a woman when you should have?'

'Have you ever broken your vows before God?'

'Have you ever not broken your vows before the Devil?'

'Have you ever made a vow you knew you could not keep?'

'Have you ever made a vow you intended not to keep?'

'Have you ever failed to responsibly create and raise children so that they could responsibly create and raise children?'

'Are you opposed to your parents having children?'

'Are you opposed to having children?'

'Are you opposed to your children having children?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a son?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a son?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a daughter?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a daughter?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a father?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a father?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a mother?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a mother?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a wife?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a wife?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a husband?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a husband?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a brother?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a brother?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a sister?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a sister?'

'What don't you want to remember about being a friend?'

'What don't you want to remember about having a friend?'

'What are you not willing to be again?'

'What are you not willing to do again?'

'What are you not willing to have again?'

((Running this without the 'again' is also important, as it may never have happened before. It should be noted that these are ARC break processes. It might be more workable for some to audit the positive 'Tell me something you would be willing to be (again.)' Also note the listing question format of these question, maybe for cases below Grade III they should be reworded into non listing auditing format. Apparently Electra didn't have much sympathy for people who couldn't get the correct answer to a question (like me!), so much of her work is in this listing format, which a lot of people have complained about. I myself rarely run this stuff with her exact wording, often prefering something more vague like 'Something on not willing to be again?' 'Something you are not willing to be that you aren't telling me about?' 'Tell me something you are not willing to be.' Christ, there really is no hope for me, I am a Squirrel on a Squirrel!))

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