I think when people are born you should say Goodbye to them, and when people die, you should say Hello. The presence of a being in a body is nothing like the presence of a being out of a body. When a being enters a body, talking to them is like talking to someone with a walkie talkie who has departed on a great adventure from which they may never return. Run the Goodbyes of Birth and the Hellos of Death. See what it does. Homer ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Homer Wilson Smith Clear Air, Clear Water, Art Matrix - Lightlink (607) 277-0959 A Green Earth and Peace. Internet Access, Ithaca NY homer@lightlink.com Is that too much to ask? http://www.lightlink.com