Well its been a good week of dramatizing on my favorite Nemesis One Assholes, but I gotta go back to work. Dave, some last words of wisdom for you. Women should be fed to the snakes that advise them. A RELATIONSHIP is where two people RELATE to each other, they tell each other about themselves (auditing), they share what has happened to themselves (auditing), what they have done (auditing), their vision, plans, dreams and goals (auditing) and they engage in CO CREATION with each other on common goals. Auditing is a way to enhance relating, relating to yourself first, relating to another in your auditor second, and everyone else around you third. AS an auditor it is a way to help others help others to relate better with themselves and each other. If someone doesn't want to have their relating enhanced or learn how to enhance the relating of others, then chances are they are either a God or a shallow facsimile of a human being living in fear of REAL relating. Andrea says she loves herself just as she is. Bullshit, she is lying through her teeth. You do her no favor by letting her get away with it. Every human being on Earth is a seething cauldron of fear and self hatred and hatred for others and for the All That IS. Maybe a few who have spent a life time handling the condition have risen above it, but they will be the last to claim they have, and they can be counted on the fingers of a few hands. Andrea is not one of them. That fear and self hatred and hatred of everything else is covered by the facade of human tones in the 0 to 4 range. "The hypocrisy on Earth is so thick, you can hammer nails into it and hang pictures of smiling faces from them." - Adore. Beneath that is the true tone of the immortal being, usually down around hanging on a cross somewhere forever for free. "Prove it!" they say. That's how you know them. If you love Andrea, then you will make sure not to fall for her bullshit, for it will ruin both you and your children, and everyone else you, she and them touch in this life. Once she comes up tone to admitting that she needs help and wants to help and that help is available, she will have done well to get her butt up to -1 on the awareness characteristic chart. Until then you are screwing a facade pretending to be real. Homer ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Homer Wilson Smith The Paths of Lovers Art Matrix - Lightlink (607) 277-0959 KC2ITF Cross Internet Access, Ithaca NY homer@lightlink.com In the Line of Duty http://www.lightlink.com