RESPONSIBILITY Adore holds all beings fully responsible for their own condition. The child is held responsible for creating the mother that it needs to prosper and flourish. The woman is held responsible for creating the male that she needs to prosper and flourish. The male is held responsible for creating the gods that he needs to prosper and flourish. And the god is held responsible for creating the child at the next level up that the god needs to prosper and flourish. The child blames the mother, the woman blames the male, the male blames the god, and the god blames the next higher child. "We lost our High Masters, and blamed our High Apprehentices, and now *NO ONE* is pure before Source." - Adore The reason only a woman can teach a man how to be a *MAN* is because only a woman knows how she NEEDS a man to be a man. If the woman doesn't do it, no one will, because the men won't know. It's not an obvious thing in humans. The reason the male isn't 'home' most of the time, is because the only really safe space is a BIG safe space, that means the male must prowl the borders of his territories and expand them ever outward seeking more and more danger that might come in and impinge in surprise. The male that doesn't wander *FAR* from home is just not doing his job. It doesn't have to be a physical wandering, but it does have to be a wandering into territories of unknown danger where the woman with child would *NEVER* go. That is what the woman hires, creates and trains the man for. And that includes her sons. "When does a son take (command) rank over his mother?" "The day he can take his mother's enemies out." - Adore Homer ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Homer Wilson Smith Clean Air, Clear Water, Art Matrix - Lightlink (607) 277-0959 A Green Earth and Peace. Internet Access, Ithaca NY homer@lightlink.com Is that too much to ask? http://www.lightlink.com