JEANETTE ROGERS (HERE-I-YAM@email.msn.com) wrote: >I can remember a time when I thought I'd NEVER be able to forgive somebody, >so I can duplicate that part. But it's the other equation I'm not sure of, >that is, "forever = dramatization." ??? Fundamentally, dramatization means to bring drama too. Seriousness, importance, permanence and pain are are the 4 main components of drama. Drama is the opposite of "Yawn, this too shall pass." Where ever you find drama you will find aberration, and where ever you find aberration you will find drama. Dramatization, as in dramatizing out of valence, only happens once the being has LOST FOR GOOD as himself, and is taking on the winning valence out of a need to WIN FOR GOOD. Without drama, without seriousness, importance, permanence and pain, there is no strong reason to stick with a winning valence or not, particularly winning valences that were dramatizing drama when you got them! But once you get serious about matters, then valences become *VALUABLE*. They were trying to win for good, and you lost for good, so you stick yourself with that winning valence FOR GOOD, you see? Thus the winning valence always contains drama in its winning aspect, its SERIOUS man, and it WINS FOREVER. In order to audit this you have to audit the FOR GOOD, the permanence, the forever in the consideration. Homer ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Homer Wilson Smith Clear Air, Clear Water, Art Matrix - Lightlink (607) 277-0959 A Green Earth and Peace. Internet Access, Ithaca NY homer@lightlink.com Is that too much to ask? http://www.lightlink.com