IN VALENCE AND AUDITING

Robert D. (VoltR@ctinet.net) wrote:
>Whenever a person is given the chance to talk uninterrupted about a
>situation that is troubling them, especially if they are allowed to go
>on and on and have another person listen to them, without censoring
>what they say, that person is going to feel better. Anyone feels
>better about things when they can get it "off their chest". This is
>not something "new". This is not the "tech" working. I don't know
>why the CoS thinks it has a monopoly on just "listening" to another
>person talk.

     Uh, this is in fact not true as many hundreds of hours of my own
auditing attest to.  In fact a person in a valence, can talk forever all
about every problem the valence has and merely loose havingness until he
has nothing left at all except a problem starved valence madder than
hell.

     Talk needs to be directed to in valent issues that will as-is.
These often are highly alter-ised creations that were then subsequently
not-ised and pushed off to the side, so if you ask the person 'What's up
Doc?' he will *NEVER* come up with the answer, as he will always choose
to run his havingness down rather than own up to infinite joy.

     Thus 'listening' needs to be balanced by a surgically acute ability
to cut short waste of time valence droning until the valence is broken
and the being has nothing left to talk about except for the underlying
stuff.

     It is for this reason that not just anyone can do good auditing, it
takes skill, experience and being able to be in valence oneself.

      Homer